Abby is expecting her third child -- gender a surprise -- a sibling for daughter Arietta and son Rory.
Abby writes: "I have a long list of names that I really like but my husband just doesn’t. I think some of the trouble we have is that I love nature and flower names. But my husband isn’t keen on names of things, ie flowers etc.
We are both ideally, looking for a name that is as unusual as Arietta but finding it difficult to find something we love as much. We would like to find a name that is outside the top 100 at least. We also like ‘full’ names which can be shortened, rather than using the shorter version of a name.
For girls we like longer names, we don’t mind so much for boys but both to have good nickname potential.
We both quite like the names Angus and Magnus and Lachlan but adding any of those names to Rory’s seems like we have a Scottish connection, which we don’t.
Any names ending with the sound ‘on’ ‘en’ or ‘an’ don’t really work with our surname, unfortunately.
Some of the names on my list that have been discounted.....
Arnie
Bodhi
Monty
Ralph
Wilfred
Huxley
Hunter
Fox
Wren
Juniper
Lavender
Marigold
Magnolia
Posey
Fleur
Primrose (my all-time favourite, but just can’t get my husband on board)
Margot
Clementine
Ottilie
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Settling on one name you both love is tough, but doing it a third time round when you have exhausted previous options and want to create some semblance of cohesivity in a set is challenging to say the least. I certainly don't think Magnus should be nixed off your list just yet, especially as it isn't exclusively Scottish. Indeed, it's more Scandinavian/Roman heritage. The option for the nickname Gus makes it even more appealing.
In looking for options for you, I've tried to bridge the gap between familiar-friendly favourite Rory (currently at #47) and uncommonly lovely Arietta (at #2499).
Elias – Elias is the sleek Greek form of Biblical Elijah with potential for friendly Eli as a nickname. It ranked at #123 in 2018, putting it in the familiar-but-not-too-common category.
Reginald – A familiar name that still feels underused at #284. Reggie is a top 50 favourite which makes for a cute nickname, but I think Rex (which was once commonly used as a nickname for Reginald) make an awesome choice, bringing to mind dapper British Hollywood actor, Sir Reginald "Rex" Harrison.
Tobias – A stately, classical Biblical name which ranks at #98 and has the in-built nickname, Toby.
Barnaby – A medieval English form of Biblical Barnabas which has a delightfully quaint Dickensian style. It currently ranks at #251.
Chester – A quirky retro-cool name with a cuddly charm. It currently ranks at #112.
Fletcher – Bridging the styles of Huxley, Hunter and Fox on your list, Fletcher is a dapper surname-style name which evokes images of medieval archery and the forest. It ranks at #250 currently.
Maxwell – A gentlemanly name that is universally known, but has surprisingly (currently at #142) never cracked the top 100.
Ernest – A royal name borne by authors and adventurers which became a Victorian staple. It currently ranks at #326 and lends itself to adorable nickname Ernie.
Vincent – A saintly and artistic name with a classic style and friendly in-built nickname Vinnie that ranks at #145.
Rafferty – A preppy Irish surname-turned-first name which ranks at #273. The sleek nickname Rafe, or cute Raffy, make it even more appealing.
Digby– Much like Percy, Stanley and Neville, Digby is a name coined from an aristocratic family with the same jaunty and stylish charm. It currently ranks at #1158.
Clark – From dashing Clark Gable to super Clark Kent, Clark is a retro choice which is familiar but uncommon. It currently ranks at #446.
Emmett– A friendly and accessible name which ranks at the uncommon #572. In a similar style is the even less common Everett (at #1284) which lends itself to the nickname Rhett.
Jessamine – Given that you love floral names, but your husband isn't a fan of obvious "flower names", Jessamine may be the perfect compromise. Not only did it rank #5763 in 2017 making it an unusual yet accessible choice like Arietta, it is also the poetic name for the jasmine flower making it a legitimate floral name (the yellow jessamine [a jasmine] is the state flower of South Carolina). Nickname options also abound. The spelling Jessamy is a variant form which ranked at #4684 in 2018.
Livia – An elegant royal Roman name ranking at #442.
Tabitha – With its meaning of "gazelle", quaint Beatrix-Potter-esque Tabitha (ranking at #204) is hidden nature name with plenty of charm and the nicknames Tabby and Tibby.
Jemima – In the same category, we can also add Jemima (another Biblical Beatrix Potter name) which means "dove" at #297. The same meaning can be found in the Spanish Paloma, ranking at #936.
Keziah – Sometimes found spelt Kezia in England, Keziah is a Biblical nature name meaning "cassia, cinnamon". The traditional English short-form is Kizzy.
Evangeline – A romantic literary name meaning "good news" which ranks at #368.
Eveline / Evelina – A noble medieval name with a literary heritage. Evelina currently ranks at #574 and Eveline at #920.
Lowenna– Meaning "joy, happiness, bliss", Lowenna is an upbeat and lyrical Cornish name.
Milena – Derived from the Slavic milu "gracious, dear", Milena is an exotic and glamorous choice with a wealth of nickname choices.
Hermione– A classical Greek name from mythology which is familiar but not at all common (ranking at #545). While Hermione is scholarly and grand, the potential nicknames Minnie and Mimi lend a sweet and dainty edge to match Ettie.
Winifred – An ancient name which is dignified and stately with inbuilt darling nickname Winnie.
Sabina – An elegant ancient Roman name symbolising concilation and meditation. It was a favourite of the Victorians but now ranks at #1272. Nickname options range from Sabby, Bee, Bina and Beany.
Persephone – As Primrose is a favourite of yours, and Posey is also on your list, perhaps ancient and glamourous Persephone with the nickname "Posey" would be the right compromise. Persephone currently ranks at #864.
I hope this has been of use. Best wishes for finding the perfect name.
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